It’s pretty important to feel loved and respected by those you are intimate with. As a whole, we often do not talk about the sacred nature of sex. Sex seems to be something we shy away from discussing.
Buddhist teacher, Pema Chodron, wrote in her book Loving Kindness that our distractions effect our karmas. Well it seems to me between social media and online dating sites there is much distraction around sex.
Sex is not dirty. Sex is not something to avoid talking about or repress instead we must learn to respect it’s powerful nature. Sex is our life force, it creates life and can lead to the end of life.
Monogamous relationships are something to revere. Those people who have the courage and strength to overcome temptation and stay committed and present are stronger than they realize. Sex is a natural human desire that has been manipulated through such things as advertising. Those who do not allow sex to distract them are rare indeed.
Keep in mind, sex is powerful, natural and meant to be respected. I hope those who you allow into your bed love and respect both you and themselves in and outside of the bedroom.
