People who exude confidence are considered attractive. Being able to look the world in the eyes and holding your head up high are respectable attributes. A firm hand shake and eye contact indicate that a person thinks highly of themselves. Next time you shake someone’s hand, be sure to look them in the eyes and firmly grasp their hand.
No one is going to give you confidence, you must love and respect yourself. Arrogance is not confidence. Instead arrogance indicates a person is fearful and has to portray the image based on egotism. Confidence is humble and has an air that is felt, not demonstrated through bravado. People will respect you, if you respect yourself. Remember confidence is admired, valued and considered ultimately attractive.